Why Some People Need To Stop Flexing

Stop Flexing Like You Got It

Nowadays I see people flexing, and I don’t mean muscles. I’m talking about flexing money or materialistic things. I don’t have anything against people flexing, we all do it sometimes, but if you don’t have it like that, you shouldn’t be flexing. If you are flexing money and not making six figures, then you shouldn’t flex. If you’re driving a luxury car and you’re making monthly payments you shouldn’t be flexing.

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Be Humble

I get it sometimes you have to flex on the haters, but only do it if they’re testing you. Be humble and just know that you’re no better than anybody else. At the end of the day if you’re balling just know that there was a time in your life where you didn’t have money. No one is born with money in their pockets. Stop flexing on Instagram just to boost your ego and make people think you have it like that.

Ice Breakers? We Are In College I'm Not Here To Make Friends

Start The Class Already

This was my mindset in college. There were times when professors would make us do ice breakers. These icebreakers consist of an introduction of yourself and what’s our plan in life. Icebreakers are used so we can network around and get to know other people. Now I don’t have a problem with making friends, but I’m just saying that I’m not here to make friends. I’m here to get my education. Most of the time these people you meet will disappoint you or will slow you down from whatever you’re doing.

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The Reason You Are In College Is To Get A Degree

Your friends will not get the college degree for you. You are in college to put in work and limit any distractions that might prevent you from obtaining that college degree. If you don’t put in work then you won’t get results. I’m not saying you shouldn’t make friends in college, but just be aware of your future. Just know in college it’s important to make friendships that are deeper than gossiping and drinking, smoking, and going out. If you do any of these activities it will drain you out later and you will have a reality check of what you’re doing in life. You should make friends who you can go get breakfast with, make friends who support your life goals and believe in you.

Ice Breakers? We Are In College I’m Not Here To Make Friends

Start The Class Already

This was my mindset in college. There were times when professors would make us do ice breakers. These icebreakers consist of an introduction of yourself and what’s our plan in life. Icebreakers are used so we can network around and get to know other people. Now I don’t have a problem with making friends, but I’m just saying that I’m not here to make friends. I’m here to get my education. Most of the time these people you meet will disappoint you or will slow you down from whatever you’re doing.

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The One Mogul

The Reason You Are In College Is To Get A Degree

Your friends will not get the college degree for you. You are in college to put in work and limit any distractions that might prevent you from obtaining that college degree. If you don’t put in work then you won’t get results. I’m not saying you shouldn’t make friends in college, but just be aware of your future. Just know in college it’s important to make friendships that are deeper than gossiping and drinking, smoking, and going out. If you do any of these activities it will drain you out later and you will have a reality check of what you’re doing in life. You should make friends who you can go get breakfast with, make friends who support your life goals and believe in you.

The Cost Of Ambition

1. Late Nights, Early Mornings

Ambition is what drives us. If you have high desires in life for hard work and dedication, then you already have the tools for success. The next thing you need is time. Greatness doesn’t happen overnight. You’re too busy in investing in your dreams and currently grinding so you can shine later. In due time when all your hard work will pay off.

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2. You’ll Have Very Few Friends

Your circle of friends will decrease in size. This is because you are working on yourself. You don’t need to be friends with everyone. You only need to know who your real friends. The value of your friend circle will increase while the size decrease.

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3. You Don’t Have Time For Relationship And Will Be Misunderstood

You’re too busy working on your future to make time for anything else. Not everyone will understand your lifestyle, and it shouldn’t prevent you from achieving your goals. You’ll be single unless someone can understand and respect your lifestyle.

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4. You’ll Do Many Things Alone

Being alone is very difficult and not many people can handle being alone. Being alone has a power very few people can handle. Sometimes it’s better off being alone because no one can hurt you, but yourself. Your ambition is the key to success. You can make it all happen with someone or by yourself, but don’t let anyone slow you down

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5. Grind

You will have to make money moves. There’s no time for hesitation. If you want something in life then you’ll have to work for it. Nothing will be handed to you. This is a cold world and people will hurt your feelings. Don’t let that get to you. Be strong and never stop grinding.