Why Do People Lie?

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1. They are Hiding Something

The answer seems to be straightforward, but let’s discuss the obvious reason for why people lie. They either want something from you, or they are hiding something. We all done it before, but whether it is intentional or not we should be aware of it. Don’t you hate it when you know someone is lying, but the person is still telling you the story. For example, let’s say you are that person where you already know the answer to something, but still ask someone a question to see if they are lying. I guess sometimes it is beneficial to lie about something, but never do it at the expenses of others.

2. They Do not Respect You Enough To Tell You The Truth

I do not think I know what’s worse: people who lie, or people who think you are stupid enough to believe their lies. Like they say if the words do not add up, it is usually because the truth was not included in the equation and it is time to subtract yourself from toxic people. You do not need those kinds of people in your life. Nowadays fake is a trend, and real situations will expose fake people. This is the main reason why people have trust issues. You cannot trust anyone, but yourself fully. Intentional lies that hurt other people is like cancer in the soul.

3. They Don’t Even Know they’re lying

I know this sounds crazy sometimes, but some people don’t even realize that they’re lying sometimes. Intentional lies are the worst. Sometimes you have to know the difference between intentional and unintentional lies. Don’t ever lie to people who trust you. This will cause a domino effect where people start having trust issues. Be a good person in life and just tell the truth. The truth will always set you free, and your behavior says everything about you.

Why Do People Lie?

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1. They are Hiding Something

The answer seems to be straightforward, but let’s discuss the obvious reason for why people lie. They either want something from you, or they are hiding something. We all done it before, but whether it is intentional or not we should be aware of it. Don’t you hate it when you know someone is lying, but the person is still telling you the story. For example, let’s say you are that person where you already know the answer to something, but still ask someone a question to see if they are lying. I guess sometimes it is beneficial to lie about something, but never do it at the expenses of others.

2. They Do not Respect You Enough To Tell You The Truth

I do not think I know what’s worse: people who lie, or people who think you are stupid enough to believe their lies. Like they say if the words do not add up, it is usually because the truth was not included in the equation and it is time to subtract yourself from toxic people. You do not need those kinds of people in your life. Nowadays fake is a trend, and real situations will expose fake people. This is the main reason why people have trust issues. You cannot trust anyone, but yourself fully. Intentional lies that hurt other people is like cancer in the soul.

3. They Don’t Even Know they’re lying

I know this sounds crazy sometimes, but some people don’t even realize that they’re lying sometimes. Intentional lies are the worst. Sometimes you have to know the difference between intentional and unintentional lies. Don’t ever lie to people who trust you. This will cause a domino effect where people start having trust issues. Be a good person in life and just tell the truth. The truth will always set you free, and your behavior says everything about you.

Ice Breakers? We Are In College I'm Not Here To Make Friends

Start The Class Already

This was my mindset in college. There were times when professors would make us do ice breakers. These icebreakers consist of an introduction of yourself and what’s our plan in life. Icebreakers are used so we can network around and get to know other people. Now I don’t have a problem with making friends, but I’m just saying that I’m not here to make friends. I’m here to get my education. Most of the time these people you meet will disappoint you or will slow you down from whatever you’re doing.

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The Reason You Are In College Is To Get A Degree

Your friends will not get the college degree for you. You are in college to put in work and limit any distractions that might prevent you from obtaining that college degree. If you don’t put in work then you won’t get results. I’m not saying you shouldn’t make friends in college, but just be aware of your future. Just know in college it’s important to make friendships that are deeper than gossiping and drinking, smoking, and going out. If you do any of these activities it will drain you out later and you will have a reality check of what you’re doing in life. You should make friends who you can go get breakfast with, make friends who support your life goals and believe in you.