Don't Catch Feelings In 2018

1. If You Do not have Your Life Figured Out Yet

2018 is here, and if you felt like you wasted your time in 2017, then you should continue reading. This year people have already decided what they want to do. Whether or not you will follow through with them is dependent on your motives and values. A wise move for most people today would be to not catch feelings for someone unless you are serious. If you are not serious about a relationship, then you are wasting your time, and I would recommend you to invest it in self-development. Don’t catch feelings for someone if you do not have your life planned out. Don’t invest your time in someone else when you have problems that you haven’t solved in 2017. If you are already in a relationship, then continue to do whatever it takes to make it work.

2. If You Like To Play Games

We live in a generation where people like to play games with other people, and I am not talking about video games. Playing games with other people’s emotions is not okay. We live in a society where men have to chase after women. I guess you can say that women are the gatekeeper in the relationship. She has the power and decides whom she wants to start or continue the relationship. Don’t play mind games with people you care. When you try to play someone else, you’ll end up playing yourself. They will grow wiser, and you will stay in the same miserable place where you started. Don’t get into a relationship without trust. It is like having a cellphone with no sim card, and all you can do is play games. When you get into a relationship, the goal is long-term. If you have any doubts about any relationship, then you already have your answer. Fighting for someone you love is one thing, but fighting over someone is another thing.

If You Think You Do not Have Feelings

I know some of you are hard-headed and think you can do whatever you want. If you think you cannot catch feelings if you do not have any feelings, then you are delusional. Spend enough time with someone every day and constantly talk to one another then you will catch feelings and will get attached. If you do not want to catch feelings cut off any connection with the person you are interacting with before it is too late. Once you start catching feelings, there’s no going back.

Why Do People Lie?

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1. They are Hiding Something

The answer seems to be straightforward, but let’s discuss the obvious reason for why people lie. They either want something from you, or they are hiding something. We all done it before, but whether it is intentional or not we should be aware of it. Don’t you hate it when you know someone is lying, but the person is still telling you the story. For example, let’s say you are that person where you already know the answer to something, but still ask someone a question to see if they are lying. I guess sometimes it is beneficial to lie about something, but never do it at the expenses of others.

2. They Do not Respect You Enough To Tell You The Truth

I do not think I know what’s worse: people who lie, or people who think you are stupid enough to believe their lies. Like they say if the words do not add up, it is usually because the truth was not included in the equation and it is time to subtract yourself from toxic people. You do not need those kinds of people in your life. Nowadays fake is a trend, and real situations will expose fake people. This is the main reason why people have trust issues. You cannot trust anyone, but yourself fully. Intentional lies that hurt other people is like cancer in the soul.

3. They Don’t Even Know they’re lying

I know this sounds crazy sometimes, but some people don’t even realize that they’re lying sometimes. Intentional lies are the worst. Sometimes you have to know the difference between intentional and unintentional lies. Don’t ever lie to people who trust you. This will cause a domino effect where people start having trust issues. Be a good person in life and just tell the truth. The truth will always set you free, and your behavior says everything about you.

Why Do People Lie?

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1. They are Hiding Something

The answer seems to be straightforward, but let’s discuss the obvious reason for why people lie. They either want something from you, or they are hiding something. We all done it before, but whether it is intentional or not we should be aware of it. Don’t you hate it when you know someone is lying, but the person is still telling you the story. For example, let’s say you are that person where you already know the answer to something, but still ask someone a question to see if they are lying. I guess sometimes it is beneficial to lie about something, but never do it at the expenses of others.

2. They Do not Respect You Enough To Tell You The Truth

I do not think I know what’s worse: people who lie, or people who think you are stupid enough to believe their lies. Like they say if the words do not add up, it is usually because the truth was not included in the equation and it is time to subtract yourself from toxic people. You do not need those kinds of people in your life. Nowadays fake is a trend, and real situations will expose fake people. This is the main reason why people have trust issues. You cannot trust anyone, but yourself fully. Intentional lies that hurt other people is like cancer in the soul.

3. They Don’t Even Know they’re lying

I know this sounds crazy sometimes, but some people don’t even realize that they’re lying sometimes. Intentional lies are the worst. Sometimes you have to know the difference between intentional and unintentional lies. Don’t ever lie to people who trust you. This will cause a domino effect where people start having trust issues. Be a good person in life and just tell the truth. The truth will always set you free, and your behavior says everything about you.

Ice Breakers? We Are In College I'm Not Here To Make Friends

Start The Class Already

This was my mindset in college. There were times when professors would make us do ice breakers. These icebreakers consist of an introduction of yourself and what’s our plan in life. Icebreakers are used so we can network around and get to know other people. Now I don’t have a problem with making friends, but I’m just saying that I’m not here to make friends. I’m here to get my education. Most of the time these people you meet will disappoint you or will slow you down from whatever you’re doing.

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The Reason You Are In College Is To Get A Degree

Your friends will not get the college degree for you. You are in college to put in work and limit any distractions that might prevent you from obtaining that college degree. If you don’t put in work then you won’t get results. I’m not saying you shouldn’t make friends in college, but just be aware of your future. Just know in college it’s important to make friendships that are deeper than gossiping and drinking, smoking, and going out. If you do any of these activities it will drain you out later and you will have a reality check of what you’re doing in life. You should make friends who you can go get breakfast with, make friends who support your life goals and believe in you.

How You Can Change Your Life By Investing Your Time Wisely

Success isn’t going to chase you

I’m not here to tell you what you should or shouldn’t be doing in life, but if you want to continue reading this, which I highly advise you should then go ahead. If you have anything negative to say later, please invest your time somewhere else. If you are still reading this, then I can tell you this would be an investment worth your time. We all want to be successful in life right? What does success mean to you? The most common way success is defined by our society is wealth. The more money or assets you have, the more successful you are viewed within our community. Now, what are you willing to do to obtain this success? Nowadays many people dream of this success, but in reality, they don’t want it bad enough. However, whatever success means to you it’s all in reach, and all it takes is this one step to change life for the better.

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1. Invest Your Time Wisely

You have dreams that you should be chasing after. You have goals that you’ll never achieve by chilling. You don’t want a reality check later in your life. Time moves fast, which you will have to learn to walk quicker. No matter where you are in life, you still can achieve your goals. You need to get your priorities straight. You need to be specific, and it’s time to put pieces of your puzzle together. Time is the ultimate giver and taker. Time is both feared and appreciated. If you used your time foolishly, you’d regret it. If you used your time wisely, you’d see results. It takes time to achieve your goals. Thus you will have to be patient and act efficiently.

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2. How to invest your time wisely

Don’t let anyone tell you can’t do something. You can do anything if you put your mind to it. We all are currently investing our time in something, whether it’s reading this, school, relationship, work, or whatever it might be. If I were to ask you, are you where you want to be in life right now? A majority of you will respond no. A majority of you are most likely currently in school. School is an investment that a majority of us do. We give education our time and hopefully, we get the job we want. More often than not we don’t get the job we want. Thus we settle for less. Once we decide we are comfortable with this you fail to achieve your goal, which is getting the job you want. Now to a small portion of you that will respond yes, I’m where I want to be in life, then I hope you’re happy and keep pushing forward.

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If you are currently in school, then this should be your priority. School work should be finished before you make time for anything else. You say you want a college degree? Then you must do whatever it takes to get a college degree. If your friends are slowing you down from your school work, then you need to remove yourself and go to an optimal environment where you can push forward. If you’re in a romantic relationship and it’s slowing you down both mentally and physically, then you must decide to continue or cut the ties. I’m not saying you should drop everything for school, but education should be your primary priority and where a majority of your time will be invested. If you’re out to party and you have work that needs to be done, then you don’t have your priorities straight. If you were to tell me that you can do it later, then I will tell you that what you won’t do someone else will, and they will be better because they put in that work and effort.

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I know it might sound selfish, but you should be a priority. At the end of the day, you are the most extended commitment in life. The sad truth about this is that it’s a cold world. We strive at the expenses of others. It’s a competition out here, and most people don’t realize it. For example, school your test scores are compared to other students. How you perform is an indicator of your position in the classroom. If you don’t have the best test score, then you are not putting enough time and effort. There’s no excuses and no one to blame but yourself. You must strive to be the best, or you’ll be average. Don’t settle for being mediocre; you were made for greatness. If you just failed an exam then you must evaluate what went wrong. It’s your future, and if you aren’t putting time and effort in later, you’ll never achieve your goals.

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3. The time is now

Whatever your goals might be you should be working toward it every day. Just do what you love, and the rest will follow after. Work hard and work smart as well. If you aren’t where you want to be in life, and you start working toward your dreams now you’ll thank me after. Don’t be that person that says they will do something, but won’t do it. Actions will speak louder than words. Make your dreams a reality and never quit. The time is now.

It will take time

  • Know your definition of success and set goals
  • Invest time and effort wisely
  • Maintain Priorities
  • Cut off any distractions
  • In due time