Don’t Catch Feelings In 2018

1. If You Do not have Your Life Figured Out Yet

2018 is here, and if you felt like you wasted your time in 2017, then you should continue reading. This year people have already decided what they want to do. Whether or not you will follow through with them is dependent on your motives and values. A wise move for most people today would be to not catch feelings for someone unless you are serious. If you are not serious about a relationship, then you are wasting your time, and I would recommend you to invest it in self-development. Don’t catch feelings for someone if you do not have your life planned out. Don’t invest your time in someone else when you have problems that you haven’t solved in 2017. If you are already in a relationship, then continue to do whatever it takes to make it work.

2. If You Like To Play Games

We live in a generation where people like to play games with other people, and I am not talking about video games. Playing games with other people’s emotions is not okay. We live in a society where men have to chase after women. I guess you can say that women are the gatekeeper in the relationship. She has the power and decides whom she wants to start or continue the relationship. Don’t play mind games with people you care. When you try to play someone else, you’ll end up playing yourself. They will grow wiser, and you will stay in the same miserable place where you started. Don’t get into a relationship without trust. It is like having a cellphone with no sim card, and all you can do is play games. When you get into a relationship, the goal is long-term. If you have any doubts about any relationship, then you already have your answer. Fighting for someone you love is one thing, but fighting over someone is another thing.

If You Think You Do not Have Feelings

I know some of you are hard-headed and think you can do whatever you want. If you think you cannot catch feelings if you do not have any feelings, then you are delusional. Spend enough time with someone every day and constantly talk to one another then you will catch feelings and will get attached. If you do not want to catch feelings cut off any connection with the person you are interacting with before it is too late. Once you start catching feelings, there’s no going back.

Don't Catch Feelings In 2018

1. If You Do not have Your Life Figured Out Yet

2018 is here, and if you felt like you wasted your time in 2017, then you should continue reading. This year people have already decided what they want to do. Whether or not you will follow through with them is dependent on your motives and values. A wise move for most people today would be to not catch feelings for someone unless you are serious. If you are not serious about a relationship, then you are wasting your time, and I would recommend you to invest it in self-development. Don’t catch feelings for someone if you do not have your life planned out. Don’t invest your time in someone else when you have problems that you haven’t solved in 2017. If you are already in a relationship, then continue to do whatever it takes to make it work.

2. If You Like To Play Games

We live in a generation where people like to play games with other people, and I am not talking about video games. Playing games with other people’s emotions is not okay. We live in a society where men have to chase after women. I guess you can say that women are the gatekeeper in the relationship. She has the power and decides whom she wants to start or continue the relationship. Don’t play mind games with people you care. When you try to play someone else, you’ll end up playing yourself. They will grow wiser, and you will stay in the same miserable place where you started. Don’t get into a relationship without trust. It is like having a cellphone with no sim card, and all you can do is play games. When you get into a relationship, the goal is long-term. If you have any doubts about any relationship, then you already have your answer. Fighting for someone you love is one thing, but fighting over someone is another thing.

If You Think You Do not Have Feelings

I know some of you are hard-headed and think you can do whatever you want. If you think you cannot catch feelings if you do not have any feelings, then you are delusional. Spend enough time with someone every day and constantly talk to one another then you will catch feelings and will get attached. If you do not want to catch feelings cut off any connection with the person you are interacting with before it is too late. Once you start catching feelings, there’s no going back.

Why Do People Lie?

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1. They are Hiding Something

The answer seems to be straightforward, but let’s discuss the obvious reason for why people lie. They either want something from you, or they are hiding something. We all done it before, but whether it is intentional or not we should be aware of it. Don’t you hate it when you know someone is lying, but the person is still telling you the story. For example, let’s say you are that person where you already know the answer to something, but still ask someone a question to see if they are lying. I guess sometimes it is beneficial to lie about something, but never do it at the expenses of others.

2. They Do not Respect You Enough To Tell You The Truth

I do not think I know what’s worse: people who lie, or people who think you are stupid enough to believe their lies. Like they say if the words do not add up, it is usually because the truth was not included in the equation and it is time to subtract yourself from toxic people. You do not need those kinds of people in your life. Nowadays fake is a trend, and real situations will expose fake people. This is the main reason why people have trust issues. You cannot trust anyone, but yourself fully. Intentional lies that hurt other people is like cancer in the soul.

3. They Don’t Even Know they’re lying

I know this sounds crazy sometimes, but some people don’t even realize that they’re lying sometimes. Intentional lies are the worst. Sometimes you have to know the difference between intentional and unintentional lies. Don’t ever lie to people who trust you. This will cause a domino effect where people start having trust issues. Be a good person in life and just tell the truth. The truth will always set you free, and your behavior says everything about you.

Why Do People Lie?

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1. They are Hiding Something

The answer seems to be straightforward, but let’s discuss the obvious reason for why people lie. They either want something from you, or they are hiding something. We all done it before, but whether it is intentional or not we should be aware of it. Don’t you hate it when you know someone is lying, but the person is still telling you the story. For example, let’s say you are that person where you already know the answer to something, but still ask someone a question to see if they are lying. I guess sometimes it is beneficial to lie about something, but never do it at the expenses of others.

2. They Do not Respect You Enough To Tell You The Truth

I do not think I know what’s worse: people who lie, or people who think you are stupid enough to believe their lies. Like they say if the words do not add up, it is usually because the truth was not included in the equation and it is time to subtract yourself from toxic people. You do not need those kinds of people in your life. Nowadays fake is a trend, and real situations will expose fake people. This is the main reason why people have trust issues. You cannot trust anyone, but yourself fully. Intentional lies that hurt other people is like cancer in the soul.

3. They Don’t Even Know they’re lying

I know this sounds crazy sometimes, but some people don’t even realize that they’re lying sometimes. Intentional lies are the worst. Sometimes you have to know the difference between intentional and unintentional lies. Don’t ever lie to people who trust you. This will cause a domino effect where people start having trust issues. Be a good person in life and just tell the truth. The truth will always set you free, and your behavior says everything about you.

Ice Breakers? We Are In College I'm Not Here To Make Friends

Start The Class Already

This was my mindset in college. There were times when professors would make us do ice breakers. These icebreakers consist of an introduction of yourself and what’s our plan in life. Icebreakers are used so we can network around and get to know other people. Now I don’t have a problem with making friends, but I’m just saying that I’m not here to make friends. I’m here to get my education. Most of the time these people you meet will disappoint you or will slow you down from whatever you’re doing.

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The Reason You Are In College Is To Get A Degree

Your friends will not get the college degree for you. You are in college to put in work and limit any distractions that might prevent you from obtaining that college degree. If you don’t put in work then you won’t get results. I’m not saying you shouldn’t make friends in college, but just be aware of your future. Just know in college it’s important to make friendships that are deeper than gossiping and drinking, smoking, and going out. If you do any of these activities it will drain you out later and you will have a reality check of what you’re doing in life. You should make friends who you can go get breakfast with, make friends who support your life goals and believe in you.

Ice Breakers? We Are In College I’m Not Here To Make Friends

Start The Class Already

This was my mindset in college. There were times when professors would make us do ice breakers. These icebreakers consist of an introduction of yourself and what’s our plan in life. Icebreakers are used so we can network around and get to know other people. Now I don’t have a problem with making friends, but I’m just saying that I’m not here to make friends. I’m here to get my education. Most of the time these people you meet will disappoint you or will slow you down from whatever you’re doing.

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The Reason You Are In College Is To Get A Degree

Your friends will not get the college degree for you. You are in college to put in work and limit any distractions that might prevent you from obtaining that college degree. If you don’t put in work then you won’t get results. I’m not saying you shouldn’t make friends in college, but just be aware of your future. Just know in college it’s important to make friendships that are deeper than gossiping and drinking, smoking, and going out. If you do any of these activities it will drain you out later and you will have a reality check of what you’re doing in life. You should make friends who you can go get breakfast with, make friends who support your life goals and believe in you.

The Cost Of Ambition

1. Late Nights, Early Mornings

Ambition is what drives us. If you have high desires in life for hard work and dedication, then you already have the tools for success. The next thing you need is time. Greatness doesn’t happen overnight. You’re too busy in investing in your dreams and currently grinding so you can shine later. In due time when all your hard work will pay off.

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2. You’ll Have Very Few Friends

Your circle of friends will decrease in size. This is because you are working on yourself. You don’t need to be friends with everyone. You only need to know who your real friends. The value of your friend circle will increase while the size decrease.

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3. You Don’t Have Time For Relationship And Will Be Misunderstood

You’re too busy working on your future to make time for anything else. Not everyone will understand your lifestyle, and it shouldn’t prevent you from achieving your goals. You’ll be single unless someone can understand and respect your lifestyle.

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4. You’ll Do Many Things Alone

Being alone is very difficult and not many people can handle being alone. Being alone has a power very few people can handle. Sometimes it’s better off being alone because no one can hurt you, but yourself. Your ambition is the key to success. You can make it all happen with someone or by yourself, but don’t let anyone slow you down

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5. Grind

You will have to make money moves. There’s no time for hesitation. If you want something in life then you’ll have to work for it. Nothing will be handed to you. This is a cold world and people will hurt your feelings. Don’t let that get to you. Be strong and never stop grinding.

Why You Should Start Cutting People Out Of Your Life

1. Not Everyone Around You Is Your Friend

If I were to ask you how many friends would come and help you in a terrible situation? If your response is not many friends, then you’re on the correct path. You don’t have to be friends with everyone. In life, there will be people who help you in your difficult times and there will be people who left and put you in difficult times. You should know who your real friends are. Your real friends will always be there for you and the rest of the other people should be acquaintances.DJfBoC4W0AE0Yr2

2. The Less People You Hang Out With The Less Problems You Will Deal With

Having more friends around you will bring you problems rather than happiness. More often than not it’s the road to more problems. It’s already hard enough to know who your real friends are. Trust takes time to build and I know many of you have trust issues. Be careful who you trust or tell your problems to. Many people that you think are your friends can turn their back on you. You’ll live and learn, but just pay close attention.a25d736ae2748b65315301791947c7ed--people-change-good-people.jpg

3. Not Everyone Around You Is Interested In Seeing You Improve

This is the sad truth about it. If you’re doing something right, you’ll always have haters. These haters don’t want to see you win in life. Just make sure everyone in your friend circle is pushing you forward in life and not holding you back. If they are holding you back then you should cut them out of your life. At the end of the day people will wish you well, but will stab you in the back. Real situations will expose fake people.

Why These Girls Ain't Loyal

1. You’re Broke

I’m not talking about all girls, but what I can tell you is that no girl wants a broke boy. I don’t have anything against broke boyfriends, but in reality, there’s no reason for you to be broke. You are given many opportunities to get up and hustle. If you have bills to pay, I can understand and respect that, but money isn’t going to chase you. You have to get up and start putting in work. She shouldn’t be carrying you in life. I’m pretty sure you guys don’t want a broke girlfriend unless you’re a sugar daddy.
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2. You’re Too Available 

Don’t be too available. This is how you lose your girlfriend. When you’re also available, it will make your girlfriend think you’ll always be there for her. She will most likely feel you’re needy or don’t have anything better to do. They will take you for granted I understand you should always make time for your girlfriend, but there are times where you must be alone. You have things that need to be accomplished in life. You being too available makes you lose your importance. I know this sounds terrible, but let them miss you.

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3. You’re Lame

If you’re not balling, then you will most likely lose your girlfriend to Mr. Steal your girl. You should have high ambitions in life and a great personality. Looks will only get you so far with a girl. It’s a competition out here, which it’s the sad truth about this. Your girlfriend can sense that you’re afraid to lose her, which she can take advantage of you.